He says, “I AM THE MAN”.
To “the man”.
You only act for a while. Later you take that mask off and
show your real face to the people and people begin to hate you. They should
because you deserve that. Talking about the second type of man, he is narrow
minded and courageous. You ought to be courageous to live a two-faced life,
right?
‘the man’ thinks only he has the right to education. Someone
invent a time machine and take him to 1948. In 1948 it was clearly declared
that everyone has the right to education. Since the time girls have started
going to schools, level of sincerity has either been maintained or increased by
girls. Where boys go around checking each and every girl’s assets, sports,
making a gang to fight because somebody has hurt his ego or just for a bloody
show off, girls have their aims on their minds. Where a boy thinks about
getting into a relationship and making love to a girl, girls remain in the limit-drawn
much earlier. But “THE MAN” instead of encouraging her to study does not allow
her to go to school. If allows, does not take her education seriously. The
reason is that people say that it would be okay if she just graduates or we can
afford to leave her education and get her married. Most commonly said, “girls
only have to be beautiful and virgin to get a good guy.” Let us not talk about
guys’ life. It is opposite.
To make world a better place, start asking if girl is highly
qualified, if she would prefer to do a job or if she is really ready for the
marriage or she wants to focus on her career.
‘the
man’ prefers to leave home and earn. He does not allow his lady to do the same.
The truth is, ‘the man’ fears that if his lady goes out to earn and gets more
success than him he will be nothing but a disgrace to MANHOOD. And they talk
about equality. Sure. Get a life!
Women like Indira Gandhi,
Vinita Bali (M.D of Britannia Industries), Neelam Dhawan (M.D of
Microsoft, India), Naina Lal Kidwai (Group General Manager and Country Head of
the HSBC Gruop in India) and many more are living examples.
Generalising the topic, if a boy goes out in shorts, he is
good. But if a girl goes out in shorts, she is called temptress and is tagged
as a slut or for-some-bucks-entertainer (a prostitute). Depressingly, it is not
only the youth saying but also the old generation. The only difference is in
their words. Tag is the same. Only guys feel hot, right? Girls are made up of
ice and only meant to give birth to a human who will carry on the generation. A
girl is stopped from wearing short dresses even when everyone knows that girls
wearing salwar-kamiz also get raped. Guys, wild wolves, rape and all the girls pay
for it. Payment is their freedom. Freedom to wear what they want to wear. Freedom
to go out alone.
Most of youth does not know how to handle relationships and
still have the thirst to be in it. When the thirst should be for a stable life,
they desire for a physical relationship and this desire has sent out wrong
signals about living-relationship. For oldies living-relationship means physical-relationship
and this is obviously wrong. There are many who live with their parents, lie to
them, go out and then cry for 9 months. They lose their life and probably an
immature guy who leaves saying that he took all precautions and was not ready
for a child. In no country a homosexual couple can live with a sane mind
because of narrow minded people. They either lose all the happiness of life or
commit suicide.
Friendship, everyone says, is the most important thing in
everybody’s life. Trust me, living with no friend is not that frustrating when
you see friends fighting for a stupid reason. No call or message irritates. When
your friend shares something very important not with you but with someone else,
it frustrates. You feel like you are pipsqueak for him/her. Ultimately it turns
out that you all are same. Just that he/she met him/her first so he/she shared
with him/her first. Friendship with the other gender is hard to maintain. People
start talking about you, teasing you, linking you and worst, you have to break
up as friends because of that.
Come on, people!
Open up your mind to accept. Not to mind what others are
saying but to tell them to mind their own business. Accept that the world is
running on two tires and both have to be equal.
